If you’re looking for some exciting and entertaining ideas to spice up your time spent at home with your gay friends, you’ve come to the right place. In this article, I’m serving up a delightful list of 12 activities that will have you laughing, dancing, and bonding like never before.
Prepare to unleash your inner diva, channel your creative energy, and create unforgettable memories together. So, put on your favorite gay anthem, grab a rainbow-colored drink, and let’s dive into the fabulous world of fun things to do with your gay friends at home! The activities on this list are all about building fun memories that are proven to strengthen your friendships.
1. Gay Movie Night
Lights, camera, rainbow action! It’s time to transform your living room into a cozy gay movie haven. Grab your comfiest blankets, fluff up those colorful throw pillows, and get ready for an epic gay movie night with your fabulous friends. Start by curating a selection of LGBTQ+ films that celebrate our community’s stories, triumphs, and diverse experiences. From heartwarming rom-coms to empowering documentaries, there’s a wealth of queer cinema to explore. You can check out this list of 50 queer movies and see which ones spark your interest. Send out a list of your top 5 to your friends and vote on which one to watch.
To add a touch of glamour, set up a DIY concession stand complete with rainbow-themed snacks, like popcorn sprinkled with edible glitter or cocktails with vibrant hues. Encourage everyone to dress up in their most fabulous pajamas or even their favorite LGBTQ+ costume.
Create a cozy ambiance with fairy lights, rainbow decorations, and maybe even a red carpet entrance for that extra dose of glitz. Get ready to laugh, cry, and cheer as you embark on an unforgettable cinematic journey with your gay squad. Don’t forget the tissues and the unapologetic bursts of laughter because, in this magical movie night, you are the stars!
2. Gay-Themed Trivia Night
Are you looking for some excitement? Put your LGBTQ+ knowledge to the test with a fabulous gay-themed trivia night! Transform your living room into a vibrant trivia arena filled with rainbow colors and pride-themed decorations. Start by creating a playlist of upbeat LGBTQ+ anthems on Spotify or Youtube to set the energetic mood.
Next, gather a collection of trivia questions that cover a wide range of topics, including queer history, iconic LGBTQ+ figures, movies, music, drag, and pop culture moments. To make it even more engaging, encourage your friends to dress up as their favorite LGBTQ+ icons or in their most extravagant rainbow attire.
Don’t forget to prepare some fabulous prizes for the winners, such as glitter-filled trophies or rainbow-themed goodie bags. As the trivia master, host each round with sass and enthusiasm, adding a touch of humor and laughter to the evening. Get ready to celebrate your knowledge, learn new LGBTQ+ facts, and bond with your friends over a night of queer trivia extravaganza. It’s time to show off your queer brilliance and prove that you’re the ultimate LGBTQ+ trivia champion!
3. Rainbow-Themed Gay Baking Session
Turn your gay squad into baking divas and sprinkle some rainbow magic into your kitchen with a fabulous gay-themed baking session! Preheat that oven and gather your gay friends for a colorful adventure in pastry perfection. Start by selecting your favorite baking recipes or adapting your go-to treats with a vibrant twist. Think rainbow-colored cupcakes, naughty shaped cookies (Using a funny penis cookie cutter or sperm shaped cookie cutter), or build a show-stopping pride-themed cake.
To make it extra special, prepare a variety of frosting colors in the iconic gay rainbow hues. Don’t forget to stock up on an array of colorful sprinkles, edible glitter, and rainbow-themed decorations to add that extra sparkle. Turn up the music and create a baking playlist filled with gay anthems to keep the energy high.
As you bake, share laughs, stories, and memories, all while infusing your creations with love and pride. Once the treats are ready, take a moment to admire your vibrant creations, and enjoy a taste of the sweet rainbow-filled goodness you’ve collectively baked. Whether you’re a seasoned baker or a first-time cookie decorator, this rainbow-themed baking session is bound to be a deliciously delightful experience that will leave you craving more sweet moments with your gay friends at home!
4. DIY Gay Cocktail-Making Evening
Get prepared to mix, shake, and sip your way to a fabulous DIY gay cocktail-making evening! Transform your home into a glamorous cocktail lounge as you channel your inner mixologist with a rainbow twist. Start by gathering a cocktail set or two, an array of colorful spirits, mixers, and fresh fruits to create an exciting menu of pride-inspired drinks. Think vibrant rainbow shots, sparkling unicorn mimosas, or a signature cocktail named after your favorite LGBTQ+ icon. You can check out some of these delicious pride cocktails from TipsyBartender
Prepare some fun and cheeky drink recipes with names that celebrate queer culture and history. Set up a stylish cocktail station with a variety of glassware, cocktail shakers, and a selection of rainbow-colored garnishes. Encourage your gay friends to come dressed to impress, ready to toast to love, diversity, and the beauty of being your authentic selves. Turn up the music, creating a playlist filled with empowering gay anthems to set the mood.
As you experiment with different recipes, share tips and tricks, and raise your glasses to each other’s mixology skills. Capture the moment with glamorous photos of your prideful cocktails and share them on social media to spread the joy. Remember, it’s not just about the drinks but also the laughter, camaraderie, and celebration of the LGBTQ+ community. Cheers to a dazzling DIY gay cocktail-making evening that will leave you feeling fabulous, refreshed, and ready to toast to love and equality!
5. Themed Gay Costume Party
Unleash your inner fashionista and throw a show-stopping themed gay costume party right in the comfort of your own home! It’s time to let your creativity run wild and showcase your fabulous sense of style. Choose a fun and flamboyant theme that celebrates the LGBTQ+ community, like “Queens and Icons,” “Rainbow Extravaganza,” or “Disco Fever.”
Encourage your gay friends to come dressed to the nines in their most fierce and fabulous outfits that align with the theme. Prepare a glamorous runway space where everyone can strut their stuff and showcase their jaw-dropping looks. Don’t forget to provide a glittery photo booth area with props and rainbow backdrops to capture those picture-perfect moments. Get the party started with a playlist of empowering LGBTQ+ anthems that will have everyone dancing and voguing the night away.
Host a costume contest, letting everyone vote for the most creative, glamorous, or outrageous ensemble. Award the winners with sashes, tiaras, or even a personalized gay trophy. Embrace the magic of self-expression, celebrate your uniqueness, and dance the night away in a whirlwind of glitter, laughter, and fierce fashion at your fabulous gay costume party at home!
6. Creative Gay Craft Night (For Christmas, Easter or Pride Month)
Turn your gay friends into craft wizards and host a creative gay craft night that’ll add a rainbow of sparkle to any special occasion, whether it’s Christmas, Easter, or Pride Month! Gather your gay friends for an evening filled with DIY magic and colorful creativity. Start by selecting craft projects that celebrate LGBTQ+ pride and the theme of your chosen occasion.
For Christmas, you can make fabulous rainbow, eggplant or jockstrap ornaments or gay-themed wreaths; for Easter, create quirky rainbow egg decorations or LGBTQ+ bunny plushies; and for Pride Month, design your very own pride flags or personalized rainbow banners.
Prepare a crafting station with all the essential supplies like glitter, sequins, colorful paper, and rainbow ribbons. Don’t forget to set the mood with a playlist of empowering LGBTQ+ anthems to keep the energy high and spirits soaring. As you craft, share laughter, stories, and celebrate your identities with every stroke of the paintbrush or twist of the ribbon.
Capture the joyous moments with photos of your colorful creations, and who knows, you might even discover some hidden crafting talents among your gay friends! So, roll up your sleeves, let your creativity flow, and let this gay craft night be a dazzling expression of love, pride, and friendship that will warm your hearts for years to come!
7. Gay (Board) Games Night
Get ready to roll the dice and play your way to a fierce and fabulous Gay (Board) Games Night! Gather your gay friends for an evening of laughter, friendly competition, and good old-fashioned fun. Start by selecting a collection of LGBTQ+ themed board games to add that extra dash of rainbow flair to your game night. From the super fun “Queer Agenda“, “Codenames: Deep Undercover” to the “Pride Edition of Cards Against Humanity”, these games are sure to keep everyone entertained and engaged.
Set up a gaming zone with cozy seating, snacks, and drinks to keep the energy high. Add some rainbow-colored decorations and fairy lights to set the mood. Encourage your friends to come dressed as their favorite LGBTQ+ icons or in their most glamorous rainbow attire for a touch of extra excitement.
As the games begin, laugh, strategize, and bond with your friends as you navigate the challenges and celebrate each other’s victories. Don’t forget to capture the fun moments with photos and videos to cherish those rainbow-filled memories. Let the dice roll and the fun flow as you enjoy a Gay (Board) Games Night that will strengthen your friendships and make your hearts glow with pride!
8. Gay Home Spa Day
Prepare to pamper yourselves and indulge in a fabulous Gay Home Spa Day that’ll leave you feeling relaxed, rejuvenated, and glowing with pride! Transform your home into a serene oasis of self-care and bliss. Start by creating a spa-like atmosphere with calming scents, dim lighting, and soothing background music.
Set up a pampering station with an array of beauty products and skincare essentials. From face masks to nail care serums, there’s no shortage of fabulous options to choose from. Invite your gay friends to join in on the fun and bring their most luxurious robes or matching spa outfits for that extra touch of glamour.
As you treat yourselves to facials, manicures, and massages, share stories, laugh, and celebrate each other’s uniqueness while sipping a red or white wine. Don’t forget to take plenty of selfies and group photos to capture the joyous moments of your Gay Home Spa Day. After all the pampering, you’ll leave feeling not only refreshed but also with a stronger bond between you and your gay friends. So, grab your beauty essentials, let the relaxation begin, and revel in the love and self-care that makes your queer community shine so brightly!
9. Vision Board Party
Manifest your wildest dreams and create a fabulous Vision Board Party with your gay friends at home! Set the stage for a night of empowerment, inspiration, and glitter-filled goals. Start by gathering a rainbow assortment of craft supplies, from magazines with diverse LGBTQ+ representation to colorful markers, stickers, and glitter pens.
Encourage everyone to bring some of their favorite magazines or affirmations to add that extra touch of queer magic. Set up a crafting area with plenty of space for everyone to unleash their creativity and let their visions come to life. As the evening unfolds, share your dreams, aspirations, and goals with each other, discussing what makes your hearts beat with pride.
Embrace the power of manifestation and celebrate the unique paths that each of you is on. Once the vision boards are complete, take a moment to admire your collective masterpiece and share the love and support for each other’s dreams. This Vision Board Party will not only strengthen your bonds but also ignite a spark of inspiration that will continue to guide you on your journeys of self-discovery and empowerment. What are you waiting for, gather your craft supplies, surround yourself with love and acceptance, and let this gay-themed Vision Board Party be a radiant celebration of hope, dreams, and the beautiful tapestry of your queer community.
10. DIY Gay Home Olympics
Turn your gay friends into gay athletes and host a DIY Gay Home Olympics that’ll have you and your friends in stitches of laughter and pure excitement! Transform your living room, backyard, or any open space into an epic Olympic arena filled with rainbows and pride.
Start by designing a series of fun and quirky LGBTQ+ themed challenges, from a glittery relay race to a fabulous high-heel obstacle course or this funny (cock) ring toss game. Create custom medals in all the colors of the rainbow to award the winners in each event. Encourage everyone to come dressed in their most athletic and fabulous sportswear, adding a touch of glam to the competition.
Divide into teams or compete individually as you go head-to-head in a friendly battle of strength, speed, and creativity. Capture all the hilarious moments on your phone to create lasting memories of this epic Olympic adventure. As the games come to an end, celebrate each other’s victories and embrace the joyous camaraderie that comes from bonding over playful competition. This DIY Gay Home Olympics will not only leave you with a sore stomach from laughing but also a heart filled with love and pride for the amazing LGBTQ+ community you call your own. Let the gay games begin!
11. Fashion Design Challenge
Pretend to be contestants of a Rupauls Drag Race sewing challenge by turning your gay friends into inner fashionistas and sashay your way into a fabulous Fashion Design Challenge! Transform your living room into a runway-ready studio, complete with rainbow-colored fabrics, glittery accessories, random objects and an array of LGBTQ+ fashion inspiration.
Create a theme for the challenge and divide into teams or compete individually, and let the creativity flow as you design your very own queer-inspired fashion masterpieces. Set a timer to add an exciting twist, and watch as your visions come to life. Don’t be afraid to think outside the box and celebrate the uniqueness of LGBTQ+ fashion. Once the designs are complete, strike a fierce pose and showcase your creations in a fabulous runway show.
Encourage your friends to take on roles as judges or fashion critics, adding an extra dose of laughter and drama to the challenge. Capture all the runway moments on video and share your fabulous designs with the world on social media. This Fashion Design Challenge is not just about the clothes but also about the love, acceptance, and creativity that you and your gay friends bring to the table.
12. Gay Comedy Night
Get ready for a night of laughter, camaraderie, and fabulous jokes with your gay friends at the ultimate Gay Comedy Night at home! Before the big night, ask each friend to search for their favorite gay comedy skit or stand-up routine to share. This way, you’ll have a curated playlist that celebrates LGBTQ+ humor and diverse perspectives. Some of my personal favorites are Matteo Lane, Fortune Feimster and Bob The Drag Queen
To add an extra layer of fun, create personalized bingo cards with funny phrases, jokes, or actions that commonly pop up in comedy shows. As the laughter rolls in, mark off the squares on your bingo cards whenever you spot them. The first one to get a line and shout “Bingo!” wins a glittery prize fit for a comedy king or queen!
Prepare some rainbow-themed snacks and drinks to keep the energy high and the chuckles flowing. With the combination of hilarious skits, bingo excitement, and your fabulous friends, this Gay Comedy Night is guaranteed to be a side-splitting celebration of humor, pride, and unforgettable memories. So, get your funny bones ready, cue the laughs, and let the comedy magic unfold at your very own gay-themed Comedy Night at home!
