So you have chatted on the apps and have a Grindr hookup planned– lucky you and lucky them! Everyone deserves a sexy hookup and the more you know, the better it will go, so let’s dive right in. Moving from screen to meeting up can feel especially exciting when it comes to a Grindr hook-up. … Read more
Coming out as gay is personal choice. In today’s environment, coming out is getting easier in a lot of places, however, it remains a deeply intimate choice how and when you come out to others. In the work environment, coming out feels especially delicate as the people at work are not always like-minded or similar … Read more
More and more people in the LGBTQAI+ community are identifying as queer (or the Q in LGBTQAi+). You might wonder what is the difference between queer and the rest of the labels and why the linguist switch is happening. For reference, the LGBTQAI+ community, generally speaking, is still new. New labels and letters are consistently … Read more
You might have stumbled upon your local “DomTop69” on Grindr and noticed that his profile says he is open for “Networking”. Five minutes later you receive a message from him and when you open the chat you are eye-in-eye with a picture of his massive piece of meat. You must be thinking: Networking in his … Read more
There has been a lot of discussion lately about the term “androgynous.” Some people believe that it is offensive, while others feel that it is a perfectly acceptable term. So, what is the truth? Is androgynous an offensive term, or not? In this blog post, we will explore the history of the word androgynous and … Read more
The gays have been getting together around the globe in hopes for hot hook-ups, community connection or just a good time for ages. Places like Sitges, Gran Canaria, Mykonos and Ibiza have been hot ticket items for years. However, these gay destinations have become expensive and over commercialized as bars and restaurants take advantage of … Read more
In the gay community it often feels like there is a shortage of tops. Often I hear, “There are only bottoms in this city!” At the bar a week ago, I overheard a conversation, “Seems like every guy I try to date is also a bottom!” We hear this so often, it makes us wonder. … Read more
The short answer, yes of course, but there is a lot of nuance to unpack. Let’s start with the definition of asexuality. Asexuality is a spectrum, folks that are asexual feel little to no sexual attraction. Asexuality is part of the LGBTQIA+ community – it’s the A! Only 1% of the population statistically identify as … Read more
We get it, Grindr can be a gay mans heaven or a not-so-fun mystery, usually all in one day. Just know you are not alone. Navigating the app and how to set up your profiles to get a guy to like you doesn’t always seem straightforward. You might even have the hots for someone you … Read more
Have you been called a twink? Were you offended by it? First thing is first, if you feel offended then feel free to be offended, your feelings are valid and I am not going to tell you otherwise. However, just because someone called you a twink does not mean they meant it offensively, actually chances … Read more